Moving to a new city, or even a new neighbourhood, can be daunting. Especially if you’re leaving a community of friends and familiar faces. While it may be harder to make friends once you’ve past your university days, it’s definitely not hopeless. Even if you’re an introvert.

Keep reading for some ideas on how to connect with people in a new neighbourhood. You’ll be hosting friends at your home in no time.

• Smart small by saying hello to people. Whether it’s in a café, in your elevator, or in line at the grocery store, a simple hello could spark a conversation or merely be a friendly interaction with a stranger.
• Keep your phone down. While it may be automatic to grab your phone when you’re waiting in line or on your own, it also closes you off from people in real life. How can you smile at someone when your eyes are on your screen?
• If you’re single or in a relationship, sit at the bar instead of a table when you eat at local restaurants. It’s easier to talk to other diners when you’re sharing a tabletop. Also, bartenders are a great source of knowledge for any neighbourhood.
• Take a book to a cozy café on the weekends, rather than curling up in your living room.
• Join a class. Cooking, pottery, improv, or language – there are lots of options to learn and meet people. Check out community centres, colleges, art galleries, or theatres for classes.
• Volunteering for a cause that’s close to your heart could introduce you to like-minded people – plus, you’re doing good.
• Keep an eye out for local sports teams or running clubs.
• Attend any cultural events in the neighbourhood.
• If you have a dog, find out where the local dog parks are and become a regular. Or see if there’s an SPCA or other animal shelter that needs dog walkers. There’s something about animals that encourages people to interact.
• Ask questions. Listen. Be interested in what other people have to say.

And remember, when you begin to meet people, don’t be shy about asking your new acquaintance for a coffee. Friendships have to start somewhere.

Photo: Morgan David De Lossy via Huffington Post